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How does one succeed in life?

16.06.2025 03:28

How does one succeed in life?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Can you write a poem or short story based on the first image that shows up on Pinterest?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Has a conversation with someone who holds opposing political views ever caused you to change your own beliefs?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Ask yourself:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can fashion design be used to make a political statement in popular culture, and society?

Making more friends is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Why is the First Amendment referred to as a right to free speech instead of an immunity from punishment for one's words, regardless of their truthfulness?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Was Adam white or black (African)?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How do you write lyrics for a song that resonates with listeners?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Does not procrastinate.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

How come Taiwan is LGBT friendly, yet Japan and South Korea are not?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

That's it for today.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Is it ethical for same-sex couples to raise children?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Hangs out with loser friends.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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What I need from you?

Procrastinates a lot.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.